DID YOU REALLY LOVE YOUR PARTNER?

I still remember the day when I truly loved a person but she said “NO” to me. But natural, I felt rejected and wanted to show her how bad her decision was, by making her jealous. You know, all teenager feelings. But I realized that I was making myself unhappy. It took me almost three years to figure out the reason for my unhappiness. And now, I am cheerful and happy again.

Love is the most wonderful feeling in this world. But I am sure that there are people who won't agree with what I said. There are people who have bad memories about the person they loved from the bottom of their heart. There are people for whom feeling of being rejected by someone is not very easy to handle. There are people who want to make their ex, jealous. And some even want to teach their ex a lesson.

People, please try to understand!

If you truly love a person, you would want to see them happy, no matter how they have treated you. And knowing that the person you loved is happy, will give you happiness.

If you are feeling rejected, depressed or angry because the person you loved is happy without you, then I am sorry to say but you never loved that person in the first place!

You may argue with me saying that you loved your partner but he/she was playing with your feelings. Well in that case, I must tell you that if your ex was a player then there is no question of feeling unhappy.The player lost a person who loved him/her the most but you lost a person who never loved you. So who's the loser?

And yes, many a times, it's not the fault of either of you. 
You may have heard the story where a princess has to kiss many frogs before she gets his prince.So you also may encounter many “not made for you" type of people before you meet your "life partner."

At the end, love can never be the reason for someone's unhappiness.
If it is, in your case, then START THINKING ONCE AGAIN!